The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Know or listen to those who know.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
After a storm comes a calm.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
So I really did stop and change what I saw I was about, and really try to put that principle into play as the center of everything - my friendships, my marriage, my career, my family, my way of being in the world. And that changed everything for me.