Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Know or listen to those who know.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Who seeks shall find.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
So I really did stop and change what I saw I was about, and really try to put that principle into play as the center of everything - my friendships, my marriage, my career, my family, my way of being in the world. And that changed everything for me.