The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
After a storm comes a calm.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Well done is better than well said.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Leap, and the net will appear.
I'm taking one thing at a time. With the children and launching my solo career it would drive me to a nervous breakdown if I tried to organise a wedding on top of that.