The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Know or listen to those who know.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
I can, therefore I am.
Only the educated are free.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Who seeks shall find.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
I had a happy marriage and a nice wife. I accomplished everything you can. What more can you want?