The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Know or listen to those who know.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
I discovered that in a story I could safely dream any dream, hope any hope, go anywhere I pleased any time I pleased, fight any foe, win or lose, live or die. My stories created a safe experimental learning place.