Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Never complain and never explain.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Well done is better than well said.
Who seeks shall find.
Leap, and the net will appear.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Know or listen to those who know.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
I discovered that in a story I could safely dream any dream, hope any hope, go anywhere I pleased any time I pleased, fight any foe, win or lose, live or die. My stories created a safe experimental learning place.