Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Know or listen to those who know.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.