Know or listen to those who know.
Never complain and never explain.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
You never know what motivates you.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
After a storm comes a calm.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.