Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
I can, therefore I am.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
You never know what motivates you.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.