Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Know or listen to those who know.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Never complain and never explain.
Wherever you are - be all there.
I can, therefore I am.
After a storm comes a calm.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.