Never complain and never explain.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
It's always too early to quit.
After a storm comes a calm.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Who seeks shall find.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.