I can, therefore I am.
You never know what motivates you.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
After a storm comes a calm.
Know or listen to those who know.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.