Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
I can, therefore I am.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Well done is better than well said.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.