Always desire to learn something useful.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Only the educated are free.
After a storm comes a calm.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.