Never complain and never explain.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.