The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
You never know what motivates you.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Never complain and never explain.
Know or listen to those who know.
It's always too early to quit.
My anger with the US was not at first, that they had used that weapon - although that anger came later.