The most effective way to do it, is to do it.

Who seeks shall find.

If you think you can do it, you can.

Well done is better than well said.

Know or listen to those who know.

Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.

Never complain and never explain.

To know oneself, one should assert oneself.

Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.