The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Who seeks shall find.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Choose a field that will supply sufficient remuneration to provide adequately for your companion and your children. I bear testimony that these criteria are very important in choosing your life's work.
Work will win when wishy washy wishing won t.