The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Who seeks shall find.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
After a storm comes a calm.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Only the educated are free.
If you think you can do it, you can.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
First of all, returning from motherhood, I was looking for something lighter, and I wasn't as much attracted to Kate as I was to the relationship between the two people.