The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
I can, therefore I am.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Few people even scratch the surface, much less exhaust the contemplation of their own experience.
Society is one vast conspiracy for carving one into the kind of statue likes, and then placing it in the most convenient niche it has.