The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
If you think you can do it, you can.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
I can, therefore I am.
Never complain and never explain.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
It sounds so trite but in relationships, you have to communicate.