Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
You never know what motivates you.
After a storm comes a calm.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
I did my military service from 1989 - 92 and I was never shot at or had to fire on anybody. I was very lucky. I was more involved in intelligence and counter-intelligence.