Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
You never know what motivates you.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Always desire to learn something useful.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Never complain and never explain.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
I grew up in a family where the women were just nuts. They didn't stand around in cardigans making polite conversation while they chopped tomatoes.