The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Who seeks shall find.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Well done is better than well said.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
You never know what motivates you.
Silence and reserve will give anyone a reputation for wisdom.