The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
After a storm comes a calm.
Moby Dick - that book is so amazing. I just realized that it starts with two characters meeting in bed that's how my book begins, too, but I hadn't noticed the parallel before, two characters forced to share a bed, reluctantly.