The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Never complain and never explain.
Who seeks shall find.
I never saw a lawyer yet who would admit he was making money.
The writing career is not a romantic one. The writer's life may be colorful, but his work itself is rather drab.