The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Never complain and never explain.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
I have great sympathy for people that are infertile, but a life is not something you can give away.