If you're going through hell, keep going.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
If you think you can do it, you can.
I can, therefore I am.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Never complain and never explain.
I think one of the downsides of the sort of obsession with romantic love and personal fulfillment is that the plain fact of the matter is that those feelings don't last for ever and so they better be replaced and reinforced by things that do.