The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
You never know what motivates you.
Never complain and never explain.
Know or listen to those who know.
Well done is better than well said.
Only the educated are free.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Maybe the most that you can expect from a relationship that goes bad is to come out of it with a few good songs.