The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Who seeks shall find.
Never complain and never explain.
Well done is better than well said.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
You never know what motivates you.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
A guy's biggest style mistake is definitely trying to look too cool. As long as you've got a good pair of jeans, a good pair of boots and a few good shirts, you're fine.