As women, we have more of a tendency to be people-pleasers, and I know a lot of women who are not vocal about what makes them happy.
When I do get pregnant, I highly doubt I'll be one of those women who don't look pregnant from behind - I'll be that chick who looks pregnant from her ankles up!
I think a lot of women innately know how to play their hand. I'm not a big one for the rules.