The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Know or listen to those who know.
Well done is better than well said.
Leap, and the net will appear.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Who seeks shall find.
Basically, women have to prove they are strong at all times. And then when they go on the attack, they have to not appear mean because those women often get the label of being catty.