The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Who seeks shall find.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
I can, therefore I am.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
It's always too early to quit.
I realize myself that hate wastes a lot of time and energy and I would rather re-direct any energy that I have to good and positive use.