Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Never complain and never explain.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you think you can do it, you can.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Know or listen to those who know.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
That's what I do and I enjoy even the hateful moments of a relationship where two people or four people come together to make a bigger mess than originally intended.