The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Know or listen to those who know.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Who seeks shall find.
If we're given a number of circumstances to deal with, the brain goes into this mode of trying to find a solution, and it's amazing how good we are at it.