The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Know or listen to those who know.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
You never know what motivates you.
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