The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Who seeks shall find.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
After a storm comes a calm.
You never know what motivates you.
If you can find the line between sympathetic and creepy, you have reached a very funny area.