The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Who seeks shall find.
You never know what motivates you.
After a storm comes a calm.
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Only the educated are free.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
I know it sounds new age-y, but what I've truly come up with is that you really need to trust that you're on your own path, as long as you stay true to it and you show up, which is 99% of it.