The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Quality is not an act, it is a habit.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
I know it sounds new age-y, but what I've truly come up with is that you really need to trust that you're on your own path, as long as you stay true to it and you show up, which is 99% of it.