The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
Well done is better than well said.
After a storm comes a calm.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
His lordship may compel us to be equal upstairs, but there will never be equality in the servants' hall.
That is ever the way. Tis all jealousy to the bride and good wishes to the corpse.