The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
After a storm comes a calm.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
You never know what motivates you.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Only the educated are free.
Wherever you are - be all there.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Then, when I got in the military, I used to host - even in high school - I hosted the talent shows, and when I was in the military I would host all of our base Christmas parties and stuff.