The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
You never know what motivates you.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
If you've got a talent, protect it.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
There is as much wisdom in listening as there is in speaking - and that goes for all relationships, not just romantic ones.