The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Know or listen to those who know.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
I can, therefore I am.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Letting go of things and not being afraid of being ridiculous or over the top - I think that's the main thing for me to work on.