The dog that trots about finds a bone.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Who seeks shall find.
You never know what motivates you.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Leap, and the net will appear.
Caring for children is a dance between setting appropriate limits as caretakers and avoiding unnecessary power struggles that result in unhappiness.