The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Leap, and the net will appear.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Never complain and never explain.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
But really, we also need to learn how to love one another as women. How to appreciate and respect each other.