She's probably in denial that she's a great big ball of insecurity and I'm quite well aware that I am one.
A lot of what I've been learning in the last two years is due to therapy - about my sexuality, why things go wrong, why relationships haven't worked. It isn't anything to do with anybody else it's to do with me.
What's really sad is that a lot of very talented people are being forced to do things that are very embarrassing and I don't intend to be one of them.