The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Always desire to learn something useful.
Only the educated are free.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
The dog that trots about finds a bone.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
What you do today can improve all your tomorrows.
All I try to do is create an atmosphere that seems comfortable enough, that it removes tension and everyone feels free. If they feel free then behaviour happens, small moments happen and that's what ultimately works the best for me.