Men are allowed to have passion and commitment for their work... a woman is allowed that feeling for a man, but not her work.
Why is it men are permitted to be obsessed about their work, but women are only permitted to be obsessed about men?
A man who graduated high in his class at Yale Law School and made partnership in a top law firm would be celebrated. A man who invested wisely would be admired, but a woman who accomplishes this is treated with suspicion.
Why does a woman work ten years to change a man's habits and then complain that he's not the man she married?