The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Know or listen to those who know.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
My mother was predominately a stay-at-home mom.