The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
After a storm comes a calm.
Never complain and never explain.
Begin to be now what you will be hereafter.
Who seeks shall find.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
It's always too early to quit.
All too many Muslims fail to grasp Islam, which teaches one to be lenient towards others and to understand their value systems, knowing that these are tolerated by Islam as a religion.