Forget the past.
Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.
Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and repeat to yourself, the most comforting words of all this, too, shall pass.
Being divorced is like being hit by a Mack truck. If you live through it, you start looking very carefully to the right and to the left.
I tell you the past is a bucket of ashes, so live not in your yesterdays, no just for tomorrow, but in the here and now. Keep moving and forget the post mortems and remember, no one can get the jump on the future.
The art of war is simple enough. Find out where your enemy is. Get at him as soon as you can. Strike him as hard as you can, and keep moving on.
I think a spiritual journey is not so much a journey of discovery. It's a journey of recovery. It's a journey of uncovering your own inner nature. It's already there.
Take those chances and you can achieve greatness, whereas if you go conservative, you'll never know. I truly believe what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Even if you fail, learning and moving on is sometimes the best thing.
The goal of spiritual practice is full recovery, and the only thing you need to recover from is a fractured sense of self.
Man maintains his balance, poise, and sense of security only as he is moving forward.