Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
After a storm comes a calm.
I can, therefore I am.
Who seeks shall find.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started.
If you can dream it, you can do it.
Know or listen to those who know.
Never complain and never explain.
If you think you can do it, you can.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
So I think you have to marry for the right reasons, and marry the right person.