The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
To be a good loser is to learn how to win.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
You never know what motivates you.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.
Wherever you are - be all there.
Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.