Know or listen to those who know.
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Wherever you are - be all there.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.
To know oneself, one should assert oneself.
The wise does at once what the fool does at last.
Never complain and never explain.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Be gentle to all and stern with yourself.